The Truth Will Fuck You Up

Thursday "Tree" Logic...The Truth Will Fuck You Up


Sooo, I get a text from a number I don't recognize. I ask who it is and in response he sends me a couple pictures...very nice pictures...very, very nice pictures! Turns out, it's a guy I met some months ago over the Internet. He's asking me what my schedule is like. He told me his schedule and I asked him to come up to the bar to join us (me and my girls) for a drink. He said he would try after his game! Fast forward to this morning. I keep getting phone calls from a strange number. I finally answer and its some chick asking if I know her man!

"Tree Logic" part 1: Ladies, never call a stranger asking them about YO man! Your problem is NOT with her, ya problem is with YO man! If you feel the need to be up at the crack of dawn, going through your mans phone, you need to get ya life together!

I gave her that little bit of "tree logic" above along with some other pearls of wisdom. Before I knew it she was crying! Now I'm hearing about the 6 week old baby she has with him and how much she loves him.

Fuck! I WANTED to stay mad at her for interrupting my peaceful sleep! But she is now a woman in distress! I tell her to calm down and pull herself together. I tell her to hang up, splash some water on her face and think about if she is ready to handle the answers to the questions she is asking.

 "Tree Logic" part 2: Make sure that when you go looking for trouble, you are emotionally prepared for what you find. We all have heard the saying that when you go searching for trouble you usually find it...but what the saying doesn't tell you is how you are going to feel at the very moment of revelation. Usually, you're fucked up! You are inflicting pain upon yourself when you go searching instead of just allowing what is done in the dark to show itself in the light!

She text me that she was ready to hear the truth! I sent her screen shots of our ENTIRE conversation, including the pictures he sent me of him holding his dick in his hand! I also sent her the link to his profile on the website we met on saying that states how single and drama free he is.

"Tree Logic" part 3: Men...I am a single woman with no one to answer to. I am able to do whatever and whoever I choose within my own limits. If your status is not the same, then you need not visit your drama onto others. If I get a call from your wife, baby momma, FWB or whatever the hell they are to you...after I make her feel like a Cosby kid for even calling me, I'm gonna blow up ya spot. You deserve whatever you get for being such a lowdown, dirty, lying, trifling snake in the grass!

She calls me to thank me for being honest and to apologize for calling me with this nonsense. She then asks me what she should do.

 "Tree Logic" finale:  Figure out what type of life you want to live, then make the decision (or divisions) that support that lifestyle!